When you wake up are you jumping out of bed with excitement? Most people are not zealous about waking up and doing the same thing on Wednesday as they did on Monday and Tuesday.

I have realized that as a human we were wired to do certain things. Depending on your personality and your likes. You were wired with personality. There is a difference in personality and character.

The definition of personality is:the visible aspect of one's character as it impresses others.

The definition of character is:moral or ethical quality

People with completely opposite personalities can have the same character.

So let's break it down. Someone with a social butterfly, spontaneous and fun lovin' personality is going to dread going to an office job where there isn't a lot of interaction with people. Those kind of personalities would rather be going to work where interaction with people is a must, like an event planner. They thrive off being social with people.

On the other hand, someone who has a personality of a thinker, loves facts and figures and organization. Is going to feel overwhelmed with a social job. They would much rather be diligently working by themselves and feeling satisfaction of the results they are accomplishing.

So this is what happens when we are doing something that we were not wired to do. We begin to break down and feel defeated. It is not your job that is the problem, it just may be that you are operating in a way that you weren't wired to do. A lot of feeling defeated could have come from our childhood. When we were told not to act a certain way or to calm down.

My daughter and I are complete opposite personalities. She is the most social outgoing person. I really enjoy reading a book and having quiet time. She thinks that's boring and would dread that is I asked her to join me. I have learned that I need to appreciate who she is and not squelch her personality just because she is so different from myself.

For me, I would feel totally out of my zone if I was a concert promoter. Always on the road and around tons of people. Now, my daughter would be in dream land. She thrives on being on the go and having fun.

Whatever you may be going through don't feel bogged down. Just reevaluate the situation. It's not your fault the way your personality is. That is the beauty of human beings. We all have something entirely different to offer this universe. You were born and wired that way.

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